[2022] How to identify a fake twin flame

Have you ever met someone for the first time, but in your heart you feel as if you have met them before?

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt a connection between you and him?

As you grow spiritually, you start seeing more and more truth unfolding before your eyes, and you start understanding life more profoundly. .

You also come to the point when you realize there are different types of spiritual and cosmic connections between individuals. 

Soul mates are deep, profound connections, these are people you just click with.

But did you know that there is another level of spiritual bonding, which is even deeper and stronger than the soul mates connection?

These connections are called twin flames, and they are very special and very rare. So, what exactly are twin flames?

You might hear every now and then ‘mirror soul’ or ‘soul connection’. Well, these are just different names for twin flames.

Twin flame is the other half of your soul. When a soul is created, it splits in two parts, and they incarnate over and over again in different bodies, until eventually they come together as a whole.

A soulmate is someone you have a close relationship with, he or she is made from the same type of energy as you and you have a deep level of understanding of each other.

 

A twin flame is somebody that exists in fusion with you, it’s a connection on another level. It’s a divine, magnetic union between you and the other person. 

You can have many soul mates because there are many people you can align with on a deeper level, but there is only one twin flame you can click with.Twin flame is the other part of your soul – this is why you can only have one twin flame.

And that’s also the reason why not every person has met their twin flame. It’s not easy to encounter your other half, right?

Meeting your twin flame usually ends up in a romance, but it can also manifest as a unique, deep friendship.

 

You know you’ve met your soul mate when this person shows you what’s holding you back. Your soul mate is constantly bringing problems and questions to your attention, because this way you grow for the better. Your soul mate comes to you to shake things up, wake you up and make sure you’re not avoiding the elephant in the room.

 

Your soul mate push you to figure out your karmic issues and grow to a higher spiritual level.You will instantly know you’ve met your soul mate if this person is pushing your boundaries and making you overcome your fears and deal with your problems.

That’s how you can easily recognize you’ve met your soulmate.

But here comes your twin flame. While your soulmate is somebody you have a strong bond with and whose purpose is to help you get on a higher personal level, your twin flame is a person you have a divine bond with, he is a mirror of you.

 

In other words, you are each other’s yin yang. 

 

But don’t get me wrong when I said your twin flame is your other half: that doesn’t mean you have any void that needs filling. You can live a very happy and contented life. What I’m saying is that if, or when you find your twin flame, the feeling is like you’ve found a part of yourself in another person, like you’ve just completed yourself on a whole other spiritual level. It’s a crazy and very powerful feeling!

 

Your twin flame is somebody you are destined to connect to on a mental, physical, emotional and spiritual level. This person is your mirror, he’s the mirror of your personality, your deepest needs and desires. He will reflect to you all your inner strengths, your inner beauty and shadows.

 

That’s what I meant when I said your twin flame is bringing you to a whole different level.

 

how do you make sure you’ve met exactly your twin flame and not another soul mate?.

 

It’s difficult for some because one person is aware and ready while the other might not be ready for such a powerful connection. Sometimes things are not rosy and one of you has to overcome his or her personal barriers to allow the other half to enter their life.

 

Another way to know you’ve met your twin flame is if you make an immediate bond with this person.

 

You will feel immediately comfortable, and his presence feels like you’ve arrived home. Like this is the person you’ve been looking for.

 

Fake twin relationship

Fake twin flames are the direct opposite of your actual twin, who supports your higher self instead of sapping the force from you.

For different purposes, we also call fake twin flame the energy vampire. They drain the vitality from you, use it for their upkeep, and fuel their aura.

They give you some of their unpleasant vibrations and essentially make you a little bit like them.

You can see that they're jealous, short-tempered, manipulating, and emotionally inaccessible.

You're trying to give and give, and what they're going to do is take from you without ever giving back.

What you need to know is that the vampires don't want to be vampires – they were victims once, too.

 

The detection of a fake twin flames is very hard since their actual selves are buried under layers of perfectly curated individuals.

 

Fake twin flames are the direct opposite of your actual mirror soul, who supports your higher self instead of sapping the force from you.

 

For different purposes, we also call fake twin flame the energy vampire.They drain the vitality from you, use it for their upkeep, and fuel their aura.

 

They give you some of their unpleasant vibrations and essentially make you a little bit like them.

 

You can see that they're jealous, short-tempered, manipulating, and emotionally inaccessible.

 

 

You're trying to give and give, and what they're going to do is take from you without ever giving back.

What you need to know is that the vampires don't want to be vampires – they were victims once, too.

The detection of a fake twin flame relationships is very hard since their actual selves are buried under layers of perfectly curated individuals.

 

The fake twin flame relationship will show itself in fundamentally the same as characteristics of the genuine twin flame love. Why would that be? The fake twin flames relationships has not yet gone through a spiritual growth and personal growth inside themselves the more elevated levels of awareness and self reflection that a divine masculine twin life partner has.

 

So as opposed to doing the troublesome spiritual growth and personal growth work, the fake twin flame love will join themselves to the more developed twin and retain their energy and quintessence as their own. If done on an inner work level, this sort of energy trade is exceptionally hazardous for the real mirror soul.

 

When the fake twin believes they have obtained what they require from you, they will have little or no time for you. They get agitated instantly and clearly retreat. 

 

These are known as karmic cycles—they are there to help you clear karma from an earlier time, with the goal that any future connections you go into will be more solid. 

 

You don't know which direction to go during the process. Your heart tells you that this individual is special. In the process you don't know what direction to go. Your heart discloses to you that this individual is extraordinary, and there were such countless signs revealing to you they were "the one" You had comparable childhoods, interests, objectives, dreams. Nobody comprehends you the manner in which they did. 

 

The following stage is you start to reprimand yourself for the relationship going south. You may apologize frequently and consistently assume the part of peacemaker. 

 

Check out the signs below of a fake twin flame relationship. 

1. Disappears in time of need

We’ve seen this happen multiple times in any relationship. When you need the person the most, they vanish. This a big sign that your supposed twin flame is a false one. True twin flames will be present and be there for you when you need them the most.

2. Fake Persona

There's nothing more terrible than being involved with somebody and not realizing what is happening in their minds. You can't guess their feelings and you feel that they are not demonstrating their actual self to you. A genuine twin fire will be open and empathetic.

3. Frightened of responsibility

At the point when discusses your future together become the subject, you feel them start to get awkward. A fake twin flame is frightened of responsibility and doesn't see a future with you. Their objectives are present moment and just like being with you because they are bored.

4. Shallow qualities

A twin flame connection is deep and you feel like you can talk about anything. On the off chance that all they talk about is shallow things and stray from profound subjects, that is a terrible sign.

5. Brings up past issues

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A real twin flame reflects more on the future than on the past. Your connection is usually a false twin flame, if problems from the past are always dragged up.

7. Dating life is still complicated

You're together one day and you aren't together the next. If this is your new partnership situation, perhaps your fake twin flame may have been identified. A fake relationship with a twin flame is always in limbo. You never know where you stand.

8. Making you feel unqualified

When, your lover acts and makes you feel incompetent, ditch them. Never put up with such behaviour and attitude.

9. Doesn't at all support you with your aspirations and milestones

They cause you to feel terrible for being having goals and aspirations.

10. Seems far off and unapproachable

Twin flame connections should be deep and spiritual; it rises above an ordinary relationship. On the off chance that your lover seems removed and detached, that is a terrible sign.

11. Leads you on

A genuine twin flame won't keep leading you on. They will be honest and open about their affections for you. Leading you on is a major warning if they keep lying about their intentions long term.

12.Emotionally unavailable

Some individuals find it impossible to be emotionally accessible.Being emotionally inaccessible is a sign of a false twin flame, particularly when you need them the most.

13. Extremely sexual partnership
Due to a major codependent relationship at the sacral chakra, the relationship is usually extremely erotic in essence.If the relation between you is sexual for the most part, so it is not a real twin flame.

A real twin flame reaches beyond man's lascivious impulses and wants a deeper connection than just sex. The sacral chakra is the place where codependency lives, and it is the place where we structure sexual associations with others. It is the place where our undesirable youth connection issues and wounds dwell.

 

14. Involvement of third parties

They have sexual or intimate affairs with other people when committed to you, or begin new sexual relationships while attached to you. They can conceal it from you or make them known to you. Although relationships can indeed be difficult, if they are want to see other women, it indicates that they're not even treating your bond sincerely and you can consider this as an indication to let them go. In general, this type of connection consists of empath (the real victim of twin flame), and narcissism (the false twin flame).

 

Can a false twin flame become a real twin flame?

The appropriate response is no. Once in a while our psyche is so fixated on our bogus twin relationship that we won't see reality. In any event, when we begin seeing the indications of a bogus twin fire, we like to disregard it. This is a characteristic propensity where you intentionally decide to try not to recognize the harsh reality with the expectation that it will improve one day. 

 

Tragically, this prompts accumulating of enthusiastic trouble and negatively affects our emotional well-being. You won't ever have mental harmony with a fake twin flame relationship because there is so much drama surrounding the two of you.

What you can learn from a false twin flame relationship in your life.

  1. You learn to unconditional support and respect yourself in life. This really is the role of the fake twin flame They might well stimulate you, disrespect you, and handle you badly, yet you will be unable to break up the bond for whatever reason. You must recover yourselves and heal your internal bruises to a place that you can grow to value yourself enough to let them go, even though you are already attached to them.

  2. You learn to avoid denying love and start being open to dating someone. someone You tend to attract circumstances in which others wish to give you their affection, and this pushes you to confront your own problems of denying love and being rejected by others.

 
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