How to be vulnerable?
Vulnerability, let’s talk about it.I don’t have a choice. Either I stay miserable for the rest of my life until I die, or I can try to get myself out of this miserable time and do the work.
Actually do the work. Following through with doing the work. All I did to feel the way i feel today is …I never stop doing the work. And I never will.
I’m being honest with you.
>> Radical honesty always win.
When you honestly share with others, you create space for them to share back. That’s how you create intimacy and closeness and connection. And none of us should to try to do life without that good shit.
You are supposed to want to feel loved and desired because it is human nature. however there is a trend going on where it is cool and emotionally strong to not need anyone at all. Thats independence they say. It’s not. No wonder there are so many sad and wounded people out there who feel like being vulnerable means letting go of control or showing weakness.
Thats why we feel so alone, so empty, so scared of the future because we need to keep the facade up, it gets tiring. You can start vulnerability by being vulnerable with yourself first. Ask honest questions and don’t hold back your answers and see what happens. You can start with i dunno. Why do I push people away? Why do I feel the need to pretend i’m successful in life? What can I do to get her back, why i broke up with her, yada yada.
Like i said, it takes some work. I don’t have a choice. Either I stay miserable for the rest of my life until I die, or I can try to get myself out of this miserable time and do the work. Actually doing the work. OK, thanks for commenting and liking the previous videos I made, erm I hope you enjoyed today’s discussion.
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