What is love in a relationship? Can you describe the feeling of love? Love bombing.

I have a question for you.

What is your idea of love?

I remember watching Madmen a few years ago and I'll never forget the part where he says, to another character, your idea of love is what we came up with as marketers to sell you pantyhose. That made me question everything in my life as far as where did that belief come from? You know what I'm saying?

Basically that person is just a movie screen, and then you project onto them your ideal, so even though they're showing up and their actions are saying that you guys are incompatible, you're ignoring that because of the movie that you're running on them. It is so bright that it is blinding you off the reality of whatever it is that you're dealing with. 

Maybe you're starting something and deep down you know that this isn't something that you are doing from the heart.

Thanks for watching! I hope this helps you in your journey.

xoxo,

Bernadette